Sunday, May 10, 2009

Lucinda's Story

Fairy tales do not always come true. A lovely, romantic story does not always have a happy ending. Life is not necessarily fair and things happen that sometimes we wish would not.

During the first half of the 20th century there was no effective treatment for tuberculosis. Very often the symptoms such as loss of weight, loss of energy, poor appetite, fever, a nagging cough, and night sweats would be incorrectly diagnosed as another disease. Usually by the time the disease was correctly diagnosed it was in the advanced stages.

Lucinda died in March of 1934, at the age of 26, after contracting tuberculosis the previous year. She was survived by her husband William and her 4 year old son Jackie. She was laid to rest at Saint Teresa's cemetery in Westphalia, Kansas.

A Letter to Lucinda,

Lucinda you were taken from this earth at far too young an age, taken from the ones who loved you. You would never grow old with your loving husband, never see your child grow into a man.

Jackie grew into Jack, a strong man, a good man. He married Elizabeth and they raised a family.

Lucinda, you are gone but now William has joined you. Your son Jack, and Elizabeth, are with you as well.

Jack's two sons are still here to carry the family name. Your grandsons Lucinda, and oh, you would be so proud of the men they have become, all they have done, and all they continue to do. When someone looks at them they are seeing a little part of you.

How do I know all these things Lucinda? Well, it is because your youngest grandson is the man I married.

14 comments:

Afternoon Tea Break said...

That's a beautiful letter, it brought a tear to my eye. Thanks for this lovely story and the way you have told it.

myra said...

Thanks for look into your husband's past. It was a lovely story.

Christine said...

Well, I was hoping for a happy ending. But ...


I loved how you were able to get his family's history. That was incredable and priceless.

Miss Sandra said...

Thank you for getting me all choked up during a late breakfast reading. That was a lovely tribute to your husband's ancestry.
Sandra

chicamom85 said...

I always look forward to your blog. Thanks.

Anne

MzzLily said...

What an amazing story teller you are! Your grandmother-in-law should feel quite honored by the way you have brought her back to share with us. Thank you.

Sandi K said...

Simply beautiful.

Sweet Romance said...

What a moving story, I had to read it twice. Thank you for sharing this with us♥ It is so sad when taken so young.
candice

TC said...

That was a wonderful tribute to Lucinda and her family, thanks for sharing.

Valerie Wangnet said...

Very well-written and powerful tribute. I admit I was had to clench my teeth as I read the letter.

This post is also very informative, thank you for sharing.

Val.

Splendid Little Stars said...

lovely...awesome....moving.....

Splendid Little Stars said...

linking this back to my Mother's Day inspiration post...

- Jan - said...

What a lovely story. I'm like speechless right now ... *sigh*

SquirrelQueen said...

To Everyone,
Thank you, your comments mean so much to me. Lucinda's story was a joy to write, it has been waiting to be written for quite some time.
SQ